so i foreward the port and i gen the map and it says disconnected form server and idk what to do

No, not every time. Portforwarding sticks unless your router is updated by you.

Look at your router for what kind it is. There should be a sticker, a serial or some kind of brand and model type that you can use ctrl+F to find on portforwarding.com.

Once you find what kind of router you have, the site will tell you how to use it from there. I can try and help you further, too.

http://ace-spades.com/forums/topic.php?id=2429
There is some stuff here that might help, too.

1. I go to my router and what one is it, the different types?

2. What do I do once I find my router type?

3. Do you do this every time you host a server?

http://www.portforward.com/

how do you open up the 32887 port on your compter

Make sure there are no spaces or underscores, then just type the name of the file without the .vxl extension then enter amount of player, and server name.

once you put the map in the vxl folder what do you do to make it a server?????