I haven't played Ace Of Spades that much, I played it for a lil while when the website was down, but even then i had this problem, I can join games the game runs smoothly and fine but i get a disconnection error TOO often, atleast ever 3 to 4 minuites, or even on startup! If anyone can help me or give any advice, that would be appreciated, KthxBai :P

The server will automatically kick you for lagging (or certain cheats). It's not very friendly but required in the game to synchronize map edits and keep everyone on the same playing field.

And don't completely trust the ping times from the server browser, they're pings from Texas. But I think there are other server browsers that ping from your location.

If you are on the Facepunch server, that server requires you to enter some sort of password (you have to ask an admin for it) or your kicked. :P IDK the password so dont ask me....

But my ping is perfectly fine on most other internet hogging games.

A lot of games now days are hosted on dedicated servers that serve only that purpose. Most of the servers for this game are on home-based computers, located in a wide variety of locations. The best thing you can do, like Ben said, is do a ping from your home computer to the server in question.